Ok update.... problen solved and I cannot possibly image how I missed it. I went through everything and I mean everything in the wheels, balljoints, tie rods, springs, perches, bushings, intermediate shaft etc etc.
Guess what's wrong..
Here's a picture that says it all


Yup that's my top brace for my steering box that is completely rotted off in the middle and broke in two.
I was soooo busy looking at everything lying down under the jeep that I didn't see the slight up and down motion it was making. I was looking at the rod ends etc but it was moving just slightly with weight on the tires. I had been under the jeep for like 20 minutes just prior with the jeep jacked up and front tires off the ground to check everything as it hung but it didn't budge then. I never even noticed there was a top to the brace?
Nothing else is rotted....not even barely rusted just that bracket!!
Ok any one got one kicking around?