I ran the MORE mounts with a stock tranny mount, and then with a solid (welded) transmission mount. Never had any trouble with things snapping like you hear about in racing. I've always been told run all the same type, but i could not find a poly transmission mount for the xj.
Thats why I did not mention drivetrain failure as a By product of dis-similar mounts, IMHO a stock jeep drive train would not put out enough torque to do that much damage (side note, smashing a drivetrain component into a rock is another story)
I don't know enough about the chassis design of an XJ, I would assume that due to unit body construction, perhaps the chassis would flex slightly to compensate for the solid mount tranny... I honestly don't know for fact.